What disappoints me about most girls these days is the unexplained shift in priorities when dealing with guys. Now a days, a guy reaches the admirable qualities of a man long before most girls find those traits attractive. Mind you, I’m saying “most” and “girls”. So no need to attack me with “Not all of us think that way.” I already know. But seriously, all guys need now is “swag”, this, and that. Nothing of any substance……. I can’t remember the last time I heard a girl say, “I want a guy who respects his mother.” …Think about that. Or that they want a guy with a college degree. Or anything else that makes up a man. All I hear is, “He’s sexy. He has swag.” …Really? Define swag. Legitimately tell me what about him oozes that word. But I digress. My point is, I see real guys falling victim to this thought process daily. It sucks. Stop claiming you’re a queen and being fooled by the shiny Trojan Horse. You’re going to lose your kingdom. I’ve been noticing a lot of women lately say how much they need men to “step up”. Oh, ok. Step up how exactly? And are you referring to the actual general public of men or the boy-wonders YOU hang out with? Here’s the thing: You claim to want a “real man” and yet you wouldn’t know one if you tripped over him. What’s a real man to you? Having his own car? His own apartment? Paying his bills? While those are all great, they don’t scratch the surface. A REAL MAN’S core will never be in material things. A REAL MAN’S CORE is faith. Family. Morals. Values. Discipline. All words that I never hear any female use. Women that are still in school always are surprised when I tell them to get off the phone with me, and go study. That’s because a man who values EDUCATION is rare to them. Women, don’t shortchange yourself, and then keep asking the bank for a loan. You cannot continue to give these lames play, while real, able-bodied men are ready to jump in the fray and save you from this mess. If you continue, the real men will not go away, but simply not consider you, a REAL WOMAN. Ladies. Your quality is solely dependent on your ability to only associate yourself with quality. So if you aren’t getting “real men” attracted to you, or if you had one, and lost him, maybe it’s time for a change of scenery. So please. No more “men do this”, and “men are so this” crap. Find yourself a good one. They’re out there. But they’re allergic to BS. They have careers, and families to take care of. Even though i’m young the reality is, most “real men” in a higher age bracket, are too busy handling BUSINESS to worry about complaints from the peanut gallery. So you’re going to need a better approach. Complaining won’t get you there. Neither will hanging out with imitation-men.
Can I just say how much this complete describes my recent thoughts?
Shit, I just want a man that will love me as I love him and shows me by being faithful and being there for me. Honestly, that’s all a relationship needs.